When we have a problem with the heart, we go to the cardiologist. For toothache- we go to the dentist.
When we begin to see worse, we go to an appointment with an ophthalmologist.
But what concerns can cause an appeal to a sexologist?
Let’s explore the topmost concerns to consult a sexologist.
General discontent- Sometimes, it seems that there is no apparent reason to see a doctor.
Nothing hurts, does not pull, does not ache.
But you are still dissatisfied with your intimate life. The partner is not satisfied, has rare orgasms, and cannot find the optimal position.
It would seem, where does the doctor? And besides, it will help to get to the root of discontent.
The matter is that sexologists necessarily have the certificate of the psychotherapist, and in 70% of cases at their appointments, the patient solves his sexual problems, sorry, without taking off his pants.
Pain during intercourse- Pain during intercourse, for which there are no physical prerequisites, is a serious reason to see a doctor.
This pain can be in the pelvic area, on the surface of the genital organs, or, for example, only during deep frictions.
It happens that painful sensations appear even before sexual intercourse, before any physical contact.
After sex, all unpleasant sensations can pass without a trace, but this is not a reason to immediately forget about them.
Very often, the cause of such pain is psychological in nature and can be caused, for example, by dislike for a partner.
But it can also hide inflammatory processes that require serious treatment.
Therefore, do not be patient; the sooner you turn to a specialist, the shorter and cheaper your treatment will be.
No orgasm! – In two cases out of three, a woman cannot experience an orgasm because she is initially set to fail.
And she has no physical prerequisites for anorgasmia.
This also includes rare orgasms that are not bright enough and the inability to experience a vaginal orgasm, having a bright clitoris.
It is not a fact that after the first consultation with a doctor, you will immediately receive sensations that were previously unfamiliar, but this problem can be dealt with.
Here, sexologists already work as psychotherapists, and such consultations can be carried out remotely, for example, via Skype.
But at the first appointment with the doctor, it is better to come in person.
Excessive sex drive- Men who have never encountered such a problem often consider female hypersexuality a gift from heaven.
No headache and full readiness for physical intimacy anytime, anywhere.
But only, they do not consider that such women are not only always ready but also require their partners to be ready in response.
And this readiness must be constant and enduring. It gets tiresome quickly.
Moreover, it tires both the partner and the woman herself, whose life becomes a hostage to her sexual desires. Excessive sexual desire is a serious disorder.
It is called “nymphomania” or “hypersexuality.” There may be several reasons for it: from hormonal changes to serious psychological disorders, and here you can’t do without the help of a specialist.
Loss of sex drive- There are women who have never experienced sexual arousal and, in general, were interested in sex, except for the purpose of self-education (such, by the way, are also potential patients of a sexologist).
And there are women who suddenly cease to experience this very excitement: when a beloved man gently presses his whole body, and when an erotic scene disturbing consciousness is on the screen, and when in a love story, the hero passionately caresses the heroine for the third page in a row … Of course, maybe that these “confused” just turned in their annual report and their only desire is to stretch out on the couch, but if this state has dragged on, do not waste time.
Behind this can be both psychological disorders and completely physiological ones. And in this case, you will most likely need to go to a sexologist with a partner.
Sexologists say that it is extremely rare for a person to leave them with all the issues resolved after the first visit.
In the most innocuous at first glance, situations often require a whole program of treatment.
But you can deal with any problems.
Therefore, it turns out that a sexologist really treats sex, but along with it, your attitude towards it.